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Wednesday, May 18, 2011

Not Normal?!

Hey you

Yes, you

Come a little closer, I want to tell you something

Not that close! I'm claustrophobic! There you go

My family isn't normal.

You could have responded to that earth-shattering statement in one of two ways. You could have thought....
A) "Of course your family isn't normal! You have seven kids of different races(most who are a different race than your parents), drive a large maroon van wherever you go, and your poor mother still has her sanity! You call that normal?!"
or
B) "WHAT?! Not normal?! What are you talking about???"
If you were to tell my siblings that we aren't normal, they probably would have responded "B!"(In their brains anyway. They all have a tendency to to answer the "right" answer, even when that isn't what they think). Sure, we all know that we are a little different than most people, but you don't realize how irregular you are when you are living that way, if you know what I mean. Let me give you an example.
Setting: Christmas Eve, 2-3 years ago. The entire family is in the living room taking pictures.
Characters: My parents, sisters, brothers, and me.
"Let's have all the girls by stand by the Christmas tree!" says mom. My sisters and I happily oblige, wearing our brand new red and green nightgowns. We pose in front of the tree and smile. Mom and dad start to chuckle.
"What? What's so funny?" we ask.
"One of these things is not like the other...." mom sang. I looked around.
"I'm taller?" I suggest
"No..."
"I don't have clips in my hair!"
"Not quite..."
I thought for a moment. Then another. I couldn't figure it out.
"What?" I finally ask.
"Could it be the only white girl surrounded by black girls?"
OH! So that was it! I suppose I did look a bit funny.
You know, the funny part now is I didn't realize that I looked different from my sisters at first. None of us ever really pay attention to that kind of stuff. When I see my 10 year old brother, I don't see him as my only white sibling. He's just my brother. Same with all my other siblings. Like I said, we don't realize how unusual our family is. Any outsider could easily point out multiple "weird" things about our family. Yes, we could too, but we have to sit down and consciously think about it. I don't see a single thing wrong with our family setup. Different, yes. Bad or strange, no. I wouldn't trade my family or my life for anything else in the world. We ARE different, but I love it!

PS......I added a new scrolly thingy to the bottom of my blog! What do you think??

4 comments:

Emily said...

What!! We are weird??? And thanks for letting the general population know I still have my sanity....wink wink :)

Lara's Laugh Lines said...

I like your "scrolly thingy" at the bottom of your blog, Alex! Life is pretty busy here and we haven't had much time to spend on the computer blog hopping. I'm sure once school is over, Rachel & I will have more time to read your blog. {Hugs}

Andy Corbett said...

Even if you were weird...I would still love you to pieces :-) I LOVE your blog!

Oh, BTW, that verse on your scrolly thing from 1 Timothy 4 is actually verse 12, not 17. Was that a test? Did I pass? haha. I love you!

Alex said...

Whoops! I must of....I mean congratulations! You are the first to notice! You win a...um....a... smile :D